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babybull82 | Been thinking about my ex lately and I feel like he's close by. I honestly don't think I will seek him out, but if he contacted me I wouldn't be opposed to becoming friends. What do you guys think? |
whitewitch111 | I don't think you will see him. But he does think about you. I can tell by sun in cancer(your sign that he does) |
Dancing Maenad | The chart is pointing more to you contacting him! lol ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ |
babybull82 | quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: The chart is pointing more to you contacting him! lol
Lol, ugh probably not though. There's this wonderful thing called free will and I'll be using it!!!
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babybull82 | quote: Originally posted by whitewitch111: I don't think you will see him. But he does think about you. I can tell by sun in cancer(your sign that he does)
I thought I was venus in gemini?
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Dancing Maenad | quote: Originally posted by babybull82: Lol, ugh probably not though. There's this wonderful thing called free will and I'll be using it!!!
Yeah, you are cadent and cadent planets don't always carry through. I retain some reserve when the cadent planet applies - had it been the other way around it would've happened for sure and pretty fast! Either way, you are still being approached by the Moon, but it is wide and Moon is also cadent. Moon is the situation, I like to think, and so there might be an opportunity for contact, this time from him, but again pretty slim lol. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ |
babybull82 | quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: Yeah, you are cadent and cadent planets don't always carry through. I retain some reserve when the cadent planet applies - had it been the other way around it would've happened for sure and pretty fast!Either way, you are still being approached by the Moon, but it is wide and Moon is also cadent. Moon is the situation, I like to think, and so there might be an opportunity for contact, this time from him, but again pretty slim lol.
Hmm, I guess time will tell huh? If anything this in a way confirms he doesn't hate me. I don't like the idea of having enemies hanging around you know? LOL!
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appleberry | His main significator is in your house... Usually I find that's a pretty strong indicator that he's quite keen on it! Not to mention you have a fairly close applying trine between your main significators, the moon is in the house of communication with an applying opposition to your main significator. Those are pretty strong 'yes' indicators for me. The only thing I don't like that I see is the opposition of the moon/venus- I gather that means you will end up regretting it or it will somehow end badly or for good... That's not good in my eyes! (Any second opinions on that?) |
appleberry | Is this a Regiomontanus chart though? |
babybull82 | Ok, so I decided I'd just add on to this thread because without realizing it I asked the same question I asked 3 wks ago lol So here is the chart I drew up today. But the question was why am I thinking about him..again lol One thing I realized that nobody caught on to, was since he's my EX he's represented by the 5th house not the 7th!!! So he's been Saturn all along and I guess Mars too if that planet hasn't been assigned to anyone. Me: Venus and Moon Him: Saturn, Mars(?) and Sun(?) since they haven't been assigned to anyone, again not sure. My thoughts? Ok, so I'm venus in the tenth in Cancer, which I think cancer is known for being nostalgic and thinks about the past and doesn't care for change too much. The 10th house represents my focus in life right now. When I flip it I'd be in his 4th which is the "end of the matter" correct? Saturn is in my second, which means I'm thinking about him (also second house rules possessions and as far as I know he STILL has my house key),flipped he's in his 8th which could mean his focus is sex or something else related to the 8th not sure. I believe the moon in 12th represents the feelings we both had about the matter which I'd say are detached and hidden? I only say detached because moon is in Virgo. I assume that both he and I (venus and saturn) sextile the moon, BUT separating are the feelings we had for each other in past. Also I know some will argue that the asc is too early, but I was under the impression 0-3 meant too early and then anything after 3, like 3.02 or whatever could be interpreted. Basically I think I have an understanding of who the players are in the act, but I don't know what they are doing and that's what I need help understanding. |
LoadedPistil | On the first chart, Mars and Venus Trine applying. He's receiving you by ruler. He's in your first with no denials. My curiousity is growing in seeing how this could possibly be a "no". Moon is receiving him by triplicity. I'd say he's seeing another woman, but you'll hear from him on good terms. ------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Coupon Code: LindalandJuly Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra |
LoadedPistil | Exes are not 5th. No, ma'am. |
babybull82 | quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: Exes are not 5th. No, ma'am.
I am so confused as I am reading conflicting information on this. Ok so I read that if the person was just a boyfriend/girlfriend, friends with benefits, ex or a lover it's 5th house. But if they were your spouse, business partner, or someone you cohabited with it's 7th. This situation is a bit complicated as you're right he IS seeing some one as in he's married. But he & his wife are polyamorous & I was his girlfriend at one point. ALSO the arrangement we had was he would stay with me during the week & be with the wife on weekends. I know weird arrangement but that's what THEY agreed upon. So in a sense we did cohabitate. I just think it's amazing you saw that with out me telling you. I figured it wasn't relevant because my desire isn't to necessarily get back with him. But I'd be happy if we could be friends, because I've discovered that I'm much more content turning lovers into friends then having them as actual lovers. Please tell me what indicates he was seeing someone else so I know what to look for next time if I decide to draw up a love horary. ETA: Also just to throw this out there, If he is indeed represented by the 5th house as an ex, it would kinda make sense because, 5th is ruled by Saturn, which I read could also represent exes, but also while I know we aren't supposed to use modern rulers in horary, Aquarius being the sign of the water bearer is naturally detached. Uranus being the ruler of the 5th house could represent the type of the relationship it was. As it was very unconventional, open and detached. Also while not usually considered Uranus is on an angle, which I believe means can be considered to at least describe part of the situation, the querent or the quesited. I'd say it's pretty significant given the nature of our relationship AND how it ended very abruptly on his part. Of course I'm not arguing with someone who has studied horary longer than me. But I am curious to see what you think about the points I've brought up. I see this as a great learning opportunity. |
babybull82 | Just wanted to bump this up to see if anybody else had any insight. Thanks! |
MiaPluto | Yes it seems like he's thinking about you, and he needs you. The chart says that it's not the end yet with him. I think he is taking a short trip to visit you. You might meet him unexpectedly. ------------------ Mia |
Spritualjourney | I'm still learning horary, but isn't his significator via combust (mars) since it's within 15 libra-15 scorpio? I think I've read that this makes the chart invalid? |
babybull82 | quote: Originally posted by Spritualjourney: I'm still learning horary, but isn't his significator via combust (mars) since it's within 15 libra-15 scorpio? I think I've read that this makes the chart invalid?
Hmm I thought it only applied to the moon? But the fact that Mars was in Libra, shows discord anyway as Mars isn't happy in that sign. Maybe it means when he thinks about me it makes him unhappy? Who knows lol |
LoadedPistil | quote: Originally posted by Spritualjourney: I'm still learning horary, but isn't his significator via combust (mars) since it's within 15 libra-15 scorpio? I think I've read that this makes the chart invalid?
Via Combusta Significator is not a stricture. It means he's gone mad. ------------------ Tarot Readings | Etsy Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra |
Spritualjourney | Ah thanks LP, I was under the impression it was a stricture. What do you mean he's gone mad lol...not in a stable mental state? So outcome can change? |
babybull82 | quote: Originally posted by Spritualjourney: Ah thanks LP, I was under the impression it was a stricture. What do you mean he's gone mad lol...not in a stable mental state? So outcome can change?
This has gotten interesting, lol he's gone mad? Hmm, well I know you can't ask the same questions twice, but if Mars were to come up again it wouldn't be in Libra anymore and I'm pretty sure Mars in scorpio is past the 15 degrees point. Perhaps while thinking about me he became angry? I do have one other thing that *might* fit that description but I'll wait until Loaded (hopefully) comes back and explains what they mean by "gone mad". Edit: Mars in that first chart is opposing Uranus in the 7th..which could also indicate instability..ok, I'm going to leave it at that and wait now before I go further
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babybull82 | Soooooo thought I'd update this, he DID indeed come back. BUT not until almost a yr later. And it wasn't in the physical sense but thru the internet. But we did eventually meet up and we are slowly trying again. I'm a little nervous about what someone said up thread about venus opposing the moon, regret and things ending badly or for good. I'll keep an eye out on that. Thanks to everyone who chimed in on this. |